Welcome to BS Your Way Through Life
My Focus
I help married women through inner shifts that bring back joy, break cycles of self-sabotage, focus on what matters most, and find their best friend in their husband again
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Does your marriage feel like a struggle right now?
Do you ever feel like no matter how much effort you put in, change just isn’t happening?
Maybe you’re tired of feeling unseen, unheard, or like you’re walking on eggshells.
Does the idea of peace and joy in your marriage feel like a distant dream?
You’re not alone.
Marriage can seem hard, and we don’t always have the tools to navigate the ups and downs. But the good news is- I have tools that will help-and Change IS possible. It starts with a mindset change. You wont believe how just making a few shifts within ourselves, can bring about almost magical results.
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Lets UNSHACKLE your marriage Together by:
1. Naming it. Facing it: We’re not dodging it. We’ll name the pain, the patterns—and the parts you’ve silently carried alone for too long. Because naming it is the first step to healing. What we refuse to name, we can’t change.
2. Getting to the Root: We won’t slap on optimism and call it growth. We’ll pinpoint the actual cause and fix what’s holding you back from feeling truly happy.
3. Unchaining Yourself from Conditioned Beliefs: The ones that whisper, “This is as good as it gets” or “You’re not enough.” We’re done with those. The truth is simple: you’ve always been enough, and it can get better.
4. Building Healthy, Real Communication: Speaking is just one part. Listening—with less judgment and more love—is the other. It’s time to hear and be heard.
5. Reclaiming You Without Guilt: Because you can’t pour into a marriage from an empty soul. Rediscover who you are outside the roles—and start living like she matters.
6. Find Real Joy: It’s not about what’s to blame or whose at fault—It’s about taking responsibility for your own happiness.
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Imagine waking up each day with a sense of calm, knowing that you and your partner are a powerhouse team. Despite your differences, you work together to build a home filled with peace, love, and laughter, where you both rise stronger with every challenge.
Imagine the relief of laughter replacing tension, and love feeling effortless again. That’s what I want for you—because your family deserves it.
Let’s take that first step together. Your ideal marriage is already in your hands.
Bring Back the Joy!
Welcome to my marriage guiding website! My name is Buffy Steen-Larsen and I am here to help Women transform their marriage. I can help you get out of the ”petty cycle” you are stuck in and help you achieve your ideal love life and actually obtain happiness in your marriage and live your best life.
Feel like you’re on the brink of divorce?
If your not ready to give up and want to give it one more shot, click button below for a private session with me.